That moment

That wonderful moment when you find that your baby is maturing quite nicely and you are so pleased and proud!

Elderly parents

Alan and I have been dealing with his mother and step father for several years, both now in their 80's.  My mom is in her 80's as well.

I have such a soft spot for the elderly and I love our parents so much.  So much to the point of sacrifice at times, but it is well with me.

You only get one time around to love in this world. 

Sometimes however they say things that can hurt your feelings, they get irritable, they need help going to the bathroom, etc. etc. etc.  Patience truly becomes the best virtue to have at these times.

We also have experienced some mistrust which is the most hurtful thing of all.

I just hope when we are up in age, that our sons would give the same kind of care & patience to us that we have given to them.

It all leaves me a bit sad, but I will let go and let God.

My random thought

It seems that all mothers are easier on their kids than the fathers.  In talking to other moms, I've found that I have a lot in common with other mothers in my circle.    I feel like that I'm tuff on the important issues, but I don't like to see my kid get into trouble with dad!  Can anyone relate?

Mothers are just different and fathers should be respected for who they are too ; )